Friday, August 5, 2011

Girl deciding to get an abortion, being distant. Advice?

No matter how hard this may be for you to handle, its even harder for her right now. It sounds like the abortion conflicts with her religious beliefs, and she is probably confused and scared, wondering if she made the right decision, and being afraid to lose you since you are moving. She doesnt know what to expect because you could have had a child with her and she most likely has strong feelings for you yet you are leaving and she has no idea what this will mean for your relationship, so instead of taking the chance of getting hurt she is trying to push you away and end things before she feels she has even more to lose. I would recommend talking to her about everything, telling her how you feel about her, the abortion, reassure her that you don't look down on her for it, and let her know if you want to still be committed to her when you move. Listen to what she wants, comfort her, and be understanding. Good luck.

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