These boys are making me really upset:( ...HELP?!?

I'm 17 and I'm a virgin. I'm pretty attractive (not too sound stuck up). All the guys I hook up with want my virginity and it makes me really sad. I feel its all they want. I have feelings! I want someone who genuinely cares for me but all they want to do iss get in bed. I feel so lonely. Does anyone have any advice?